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Habits of the heart...

 

By Fr. RichardBennett, C.Ss.R., published in the Baltimore's Summer Newsletter

 

Recently, the Redemptorists of the Baltimore Province (USA) published their summer magazine. In the magazine Fr Richard Bennett C.Ss.R., the vocations director of the Baltimore Province, wrote this interesting article...

 

 

Like many people, I can be a nervous fidget. Think for a moment, how many times you've witnessed a friend or a teacher

twirl their hair with their finger. Perhaps your boss or colleague plays with his or her pen. Some folks chew gum, some grind their

teeth, still others bite their nails. These quirky, nervous habits seem to be rather common. No 

matter what the behavior, it seems to happen without thinking. This fact hit home with me

during a recent conversation with a friend. She was talking about

some observations she'd made about some unique Redemptorist habits.

Have you ever noticed your reaction when someone points out something in

your character or personality? Typically, our first reaction is, "No,

that's not true!" But once we honestly reflect a little ... there may be more

truth in our friend's statement than we were first willing to admit!

My friend noticed, time and time again, that Redemptorists have a habit

of playing with the rosary beads that are part of our religious habit. Of

course, I thought she meant that she often saw us praying with our rosary beads.

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True. She had indeed seen our men praying the rosary. But we also seem to

have a habit of fiddling with those rosary beads, too.

We hold them in one hand while preaching a sermon during a parish

mission. They run between our fingers while gathered in a

circle, laughing and telling stories with fellow Redemptorist priests and brothers.

We grab for those beads while speaking to a group of retreatants, or while addressing an

assembly of high school students. Countless times she's watched us

reaching for them while seated at a parish reception, or upon

returning to our bench after Communion. She was starting to get

on my nerves! On the other hand, it was about this time when I

began to realize, "That's exactly what I do!"

Since I was a little boy, the soft, gentle assurances from my

mother always made everything turn out alright "It will work out.

Don't worry," my mother would say. For us Redemptorists, our

common "rosary twitch" may serve as a subtle reminder from Our

Blessed Mother that "everything is going to be OK."

Men who are looking at religious life today routinely ask me,

"What makes the Redemptorists distinct from other orders?" I tell

them that it's very difficult to want to be a Redemptorist and not

have a deep love for and devotion to Mary.

From the time St. Alphonsus entrusted the congregation to her

protection until the original icon of Our Mother of Perpetual Help was

given to us in 1866 by Pope Pius IX, Redemptorists have always held

Mary in highest esteem. It was a small image of that same icon,

leaning up against my grandmother's perfume bottle, that gave me the

little push I needed to enter the Redemptorist seminary in 1987. We

Redemptorists bring Mary, Our Mother of Perpetual Help, with us

wherever we go. Each of us has known the power of her prayers and

presence in our own lives, and has seen the effect of her intercession in

the lives of thousands of people. The man who returns to confession after

40 years. The woman struggling to know she is loved by an all-loving

God. The grandmother who's spent years praying that her grandchildren

will return to the Church. The addict who's finally gotten clean. The

young mother worried about how she'll feed her family if she loses her

job. All of these souls, those to whom we Redemptorists are closest,

have found strength and a friend in Mary. Thanks to her, they've

come to know that "everything will be OK."

Throughout my life, I have fiddled with those beads, time and

time again, and felt that same assurance. Like Mary, we are called

to be prophets of hope to those who feel most abandoned.

Sometimes we proclaim that message with words. And sometimes

we just reach for our beads.

Fr. Bennett is vocations director for the Baltimore Province.